For the majority, meditation can be likened to marmite—you either love it or find it challenging. For those of you who struggle with it, I hear you! It can be time-consuming and difficult when you first try. My advice: don’t give up. Instead, take a moment and read through my tried and tested tips. The hard bit has already been completed, so you can sit back and relax while I share my insights.

When I first started my meditation journey, I thought I couldn't meditate because my mind was too busy. I couldn’t focus or clear my mind as one should to meditate effectively. However, understanding meditation better, I've learned this is not actually an issue.

Meditation helps calm the mind, body, and spirit, so I often found myself thinking, "Why is it stressing me out more than calming me?" The answer came when I realised I had the wrong ideas about meditation.

There are different types of meditation, each beneficial in various ways. The first thing to do is find what works for you. Meditation isn’t necessarily about clearing your mind or staying still. Below, I’ll list some of the most common Meditation Styles before I let you in on my tips. Why? Because it will give you a better idea of which one will be best for you, and then you can use these handy tips to enjoy.

Common Meditation Styles

Vipassana / Silent Meditation

An ancient style of meditation originally taught by Buddha. This focuses on breathwork and mindfulness, asking you to take note of any thoughts, feelings, and actions that come to you during this time. These insights should be allowed to rise and pass without attachment. For me, this was the most difficult to practice, but many enjoy this to the extent of signing up for multi-day retreats—though it’s not ideal if you overthink.

Mantra Meditation

As the name suggests, this meditation involves repeating a word, phrase, or syllable (the mantra) over and over. In theory, this assists with mental clarity and focus. This style is rooted in Hindu and Buddhist teachings, among others.

Mindfulness Meditation / Present-Moment Meditation

Mindfulness meditation helps us refocus on the present moment. It involves bringing attention to the here and now. Often, our thoughts dwell on the past or venture into the future, leaving little time spent in the present. To practise this, start by concentrating on your breathing and then take note of your surroundings using your heightened senses. Gradually, you'll notice thoughts and emotions come and go, allowing you to sit with them before gently imagining them floating away.

This was the first meditation technique I mastered without even realising I was meditating. Living with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue made falling asleep a challenge due to overthinking. I realised I needed a strategy to bring me into “the now,” closing down anything that had been done or needed doing in the future. Much like shutting down all the tabs on a laptop, I would mentally go through all open tabs in my mind, determining whether they needed more attention, should be added to my "to-do" list, or could be discarded.

This method not only helped me get organised but also improved my ability to sleep better. By attending to my mind's chatter, I spent a few minutes in this state before switching off to enjoy the calm in the present moment.

Guided Meditation

This style relies on a voice guiding you through the meditation. This can be a pre-recorded voice or someone guiding you in real-time, often through visualisations or imagery. I start my day with this type of meditation to help me ground and protect myself before facing the day—it works every time.

Visualisation Meditation

While related to guided meditation, this technique stands alone as you visualise specific images to invoke desired feelings. This can be especially helpful for manifestation practices.

Chakra Meditation

As a Reiki practitioner, I find this style valuable. Chakras are the body's energy centres, and they can become unbalanced or blocked. This meditation focuses on bringing attention to any of the seven main chakras that need it, from the base of your spine to the top of your head.

Spiritual Meditation

For all spiritual seekers, this meditation allows you to connect to something bigger—whether you call it God, the Universe, or the Divine. Trust that this practice, through concentrating on your breath or repeating affirmations, will help you connect on a deeper level.

Handy Tips for Meditation

TIP 1:

If thoughts drift in, that’s fine; just as they come in, let them drift out—don’t let them stress you out.

TIP 2:

Focusing on your third eye (the space in the middle of your forehead) or the tip of your nose can help clear the mind.

TIP 3:

Concentrate on your breathing and take deeper breaths than usual to help still the mind.

TIP 4:

Use mantra meditation or visualisation to give you a focus, if you find you are worried about your concentration.

TIP 5:

Pace yourself. I started with 30-minute meditations, but after finding them uncomfortable, I reduced them to 10 minutes. Gradually increasing the time allowed me to handle longer durations.

TIP 6:

Find a Meditation Style that fits your needs and lifestyle.

TIP 7:

Know you do not need to be sitting cross legged and very still to benefit from meditation. Find a comfortable position, the more at ease you feel the more you will see results. There are some forms of meditation where movement is requirement.

TIP 8:

Stop overthinking and enjoy

Benefits of Meditation

We spend most of our days in our thinking mind (the masculine). Meditation takes us out of our minds and into our bodies, allowing us to connect with the feminine. This practice quiets our minds and brings our body, mind, and spirit to a tranquil place. It’s through meditation that we can listen to and connect with our intuition. It’s true what they say: if you sit with a problem long enough, the answer will come to you. At first, I didn’t believe this. Even when I received my first answer, I thought it was a fluke. However, after more practice, I realised it’s true. I’m still amazed by the magic each time.

Other benefits of meditation include:

• Reduces stress

• Controls anxiety

• Promotes emotional health

• Enhances self-awareness

• Lengthens attention span

• May reduce age-related memory loss

• Can generate kindness

• Improves sleep

• Helps control pain

• Decreases blood pressure

Conclusion

Meditation is a personal journey and, like any journey, it has its ups and downs. As a teenager, I started with Vipassana after someone suggested it to me. It didn't go as I had hoped. I never tried meditation again until I was pregnant, but the voice and music of the guided meditation didn’t connect with me. I thought I was done with meditation until I realised I'd been practising Mindfulness Meditation without knowing it. It helped me switch off at night, and I continued using this and experimenting.

Realising how beneficial it was, I began exploring other forms of meditation. Eventually, I found that even guided meditations worked once I found the right voice and music. Pregnancy may have reduced my tolerance, but perseverance led me to a revelation.

The key is to stay curious and gentle with yourself as you explore different styles and techniques. Remember, meditation isn't about perfection; it's about finding what works best for you and integrating it into your daily routine.

Whether you’re seeking to calm a busy mind, improve your focus, or connect more deeply with your spiritual self, there is a form of meditation that can support your personal needs. The benefits of meditation extend far beyond the practice itself, influencing your overall well-being, productivity, and sense of inner peace.

I hope my insights and tips have inspired you to give meditation a genuine try. It’s a tool that has profoundly shaped my life, and I believe it has the potential to do the same for you. Take it one step at a time, and remember, the journey is as important as the destination.

Thank you for joining me on this exploration of meditation.I’d love to hear about your experiences or any questions you might have. What resonates with you from this blog, and what are you eager to try next?

Looking for more helpful tips and insights? Be sure to check out my other blog posts for additional guidance and inspiration.

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